It is a pretty basic tension in life, between the anarchies of desire and the tyrannies of judgement. We all want our cake and eat it too, but finding the balance is not only difficult, but what makes life life.
Look at galaxies; Energy radiating out, as structure coalesces in.
We have the gut and heart propelling us on, as the head has to decide. The energies of youth, versus the lessons of age.
Lets just say we are facing a steep learning curve, in the years ahead. A healthy society is founded on collective responsibility, with rights as reward, but ours has come to view rights as a given and responsibility as punishment. The consequence is the tragedy of the commons.