One way to think of it is as an internet device, where the memory stores what is immediately useful, but a lot gets stored in the cloud.

I think our social connectivity goes much deeper than our current quantized, individualized, monetized digitized paradigm can admit. Certainly there is a lot of crowd energy, that we all feel. Whether it's around a lot of friends, or a lot of strangers, our bodies respond at a lot of different levels than we can consciously comprehend. Much of life is like riding a wave. We have no real sense of the energies driving it, just our own developed and instinctual sense of balance.

As for sex, I see it as a binary and people as a spectrum, gravitating to the social circles they feel most connected with.

Like your cellphone, it's how strong the signal is.

The trick is to learn as much as possible about all the billions of years of coding built into the system. In many ways, we are still at an extremely primitive stage.