There are a lot of levels to it. On one, it's basic betas ganging up on the alpha.

On another, it's a question of pawns in larger cultural and political battles. Ask the Ukrainians what it's like, having the big boys weaponize your particular grievances in their wars.

Obviously sex is a big category here and while it is a binary that predates the split between flora and fauna, people are very much a spectrum, in which puberty is a pretty tough stage for everyone, so having the entire culture currently fighting over how the roles should be played, is making it brutal on this generation. It's seems like the entire culture is committing gang child rape.